Love can exist on all levels: body, mind, feeling and soul. True love is fed from, and feeds, your soul and may spread down trough all vibration levels. True untainted love is unconditional and does not care about distances in space and time.
You can not love anyone to a greater extent than you love yourself, because you can not give away something you do not have. If you try anyway your love will be tainted by obligations and expectations or even angst.
Woman: fear of loosing love
Man: fear of loosing freedom
And when it comes to the Minds aspect of Love:
Love as you love a baby, this is where freedom marries love.